Many couples feel "love is not shadow or shape", and it is 24 hours long, and all the whereabouts are shared, and it interferes with all choices, but it is gradually losing freshness in the stiff intimacy. In fact, feelings are like plants, and sunlight and rain are necessary, and it requires a breathable soil -- leaving a little space between them, it is the secret of keeping love in the distance and settling in the distance.

1.The essence of a single space: not a remote but a nourishment

The space and the core of one person in love "keep independence in intimacy". It is not a signal of "not loving" but respecting the needs of each other's independent individual: you need to read books, blurry, and gather with friends, and you need a space to play games, think about work and enjoy one time. Being such a person is not to cut the connection but to "charge" the feelings. By regaining ourselves by ourselves, we can return to our relationship in greater abundance and bring fresh energy to each other. Like two birds that love each other, they want not only to negate the same branch but also to fly to the sky and find food.

2.There is not enough space for two people: the feelings fall into "suffocation"

Feelings without a single space are easy to run to extremes. One is "ラブドール", one is to lose oneself, to put all the feelings to the other party, to make the partner unable to withstand the burden, the second, "aesthetic fatigue", the frequent association is lost the sense of mysticism, and the little thing is infinite amplified, and the more frightening is "the control desire spreads", and the "frightening" is the proof of love, to interfere with the sociity and the hobbies of the other party, and to make the relation to each other "cage". Since these dilemmas do not essentially leave the space to breathe in emotion, love is gradually transformed in congestion.

3.Three practical techniques to secure three spaces

"Balance" and "trust" are important to leave one person space. First of all, I promise to "one time every day, do my own thing, do not disturb, do not interfere", second, "don't interfere", don't interfere with the privacy of the other party, don't interfere with the privacy of the other party, don't interfere with the other party's social interaction.

Summary

Leaving a little space for each other, we think in independence and cherish in reunion, and this merrarian love can walk much more fresh, farther and more stable in time.

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